Ask The Old Hippie
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“Old hippies don’t die, they just lie low until the laughter stops and their time comes round again.” – Joseph Gallivan
I’m a 29 year old that is miserable here in New Jersey.
I’m extremely unsatisfied with the yuppie lifestyle in the suburbs. I’m
not consumed with money and material possesions. And don’t want to be
surrounded by this mentality.
My question to you is…………where would you recommend a single
female relocate to be around like minds. Like minds meaning, people who are into
nature, spirituality, the arts, and most importantly are kind, warm
Thanks for the insight,
You don’t need to relocate to find kynd people. If you get a chance check out the Rainbow gatherings, (https://welcomehome.org), the Phish tour, or the Furthur festival tour to meet like minded individuals of all ages. Be prepared for a shock if you haven’t been to one before. (a good shock). Of course you could just travel, preferably to other countries, especially those where people live their spirituality (buddhist, hindu, islamic countries). That will open your mind and help you to meet people who have other priorities besides money and possessions. You could also visit a retreat where you can get involved in something that interests you. Yoga, arts, self-discovery, massage, diet and lifestyle change are just some of the types of retreats that can put you in touch with your inner-self and give you an opportunity to meet others with similar interests.
So it’s not where you live, it’s who you meet everyday that can make a difference in your life, and you in theirs. May you meet some interesting souls on your path.
-The Old Hippy
Posted by: skip
Hey, Turtle Dude!
(That’s my title showing respect–You rock, man!)
I have a question similar to one someone else asked. This guy, who I really like…Well, I want to go out with him. But I’m really embarassed.
I guess it’s because I don’t know how he’d react to it…I don’t know for sure if he likes me or not. I have problems expressing myself in a verbal way to others…
So I don’t even know how to approach him…I have problems talking to people–Especially when others are around.
But I can’t think of any reason to initiate a conversation with him ALONE.
What would you suggest I do? He’s single and a great guy, and we’re into some of the same things (bands and music, mainly).
I would really appreciate your advice…
Peace, flowers, freedom, happiness–HAIR.
Thank you again!
Ask him a question, like What do you think of Beck? or are you going to the such and such concert? That should elicit a response, and LISTEN to what he says before you reply, and reply based upon his answer. Then you’re already in a conversation. If he is interested in you, he’ll pickup the thread and start asking YOU questions.
It’s good to start a conversation about a neutral subject, but it doesn’t send the same signal as you asking him a personal question, like what sign are you? (a really overused line) or doing anything cool this weekend?. A personal question implies you’re interested in knowing more about him and can work very well if done properly.
The difficult part is overcoming your shyness or fear. It’s sorta like jumping into a pool. You think it’s gonna be a cold shock, but you also
know once you get in it won’t be so bad, but you’re paralyzed anyway. Fortunately in this case you can test the waters first by asking a few
questions. His response will tell you a lot.
Remember talking to him isn’t such a big deal so don’t get worked up about it. If you really can’t get up the courage, then maybe some mutual friend can introduce you or perhaps let you know if he’s interested in you.
Sounds to me you better act fast. If he’s such a great guy, some other girl’s gonna get him soon!
Good luck to you!
-The Old Hippy
Posted by: skip
Dear Old Hippy,
I was a vegetarian, and practically vegan, for almost 6 years. During this time, my health deteriorated rapidly, and I was in the hospital many, many times. I even was pronounced dead for nearly one minute, the last time around. My illness started when I got Epstein-Barr virus followed by the resulting Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. I already had asthma, which became the large Achilles Heel after I got the virus. I had become vegetarian because it seemed that eating meat would drag me down. I would sleep for 3 hours after eating a taco, or chicken
I was recently allergy tested, and found that I am allergic to beef, shellfish, and chicken.
Then I came across the Eat Right For Your (blood) Type diet, (by Dr. Peter D’Adamo). He and his father have found that only Blood Type A’s should be vegetarians! Type O’s can die if they don’t eat meat, and wheat can actually attack a Type O’s heart! I am a Type AB, the rarest form of blood, and newest (only 1000 years old!). I have been on the diet for about a month, and am trying hard to eat the meat that he recommends for my blood type: lamb, turkey and albacore tuna.
I find it is harder on me emotionally, because I want to remain vegetarian, but I am in poor health. When I have recently eaten the meat, my body feels much better. I think this diet can help me to greatly improve my health, and especially increase my fertility. We have been trying for almost 10 months, without luck. I want to have one child with my husband (we are newlyweds. I am 30, he is 42), and want to raise her to be a true hippy– a person who puts love, compassion and peace above all else.
Every time I eat meat, I say a prayer to the animal’s soul, thanking it
for its sacrifice that I may live healthier. I also thank the Great
Spirit for the knowledge I have gained by finding this book that may
help me. I also only eat 4-6 ounces of meat 3 times a week. I don’t
over do it, and I don’t take more than what my body needs.
My husband was vegetarian for 20 years also, and he found out he has to
eat beef, buffalo, and venison to get healthier. This has been hard on
him as well. However, his health (and possibly fertility) is also
We eat animals that were raised on organic meals only, in the right way
(even cage free range free eggs). We don’t buy from the evil cattle
rancher establishments, but from smaller farms where the cows were
raised healthier, with room to run, and don’t get hormonal injections,
or antibiotics, etc.
My biggest question and concern is: How do I get over judging myself on
this issue? I have advocated vegetarianism for years! How can I be a
hippy if I eat meat? (I suppose it is the same as taking drugs, it
isn’t a requirement, but it helps!) How can I live another day to
protest the establishment and promote love and peace, if I am not eating
the right things to promote my own health? Isn’t it more important that
I eat meat responsibly, get healthier, and stay alive to enjoy life, and
be a hippy in other ways? Also, isn’t it true that we are all just made
up of atoms? Animals, flowers, vegetables, the air we breathe, is just
made up of the same stuff, the same particles, the mind-stuff of our
creator, the Divine Mother of all life. Since this is true, could there
be another spiritual way to look at eating meat? Also, maybe it is the
animal’s karma to be eaten. Maybe in the cosmic scheme, an animal has
to sacrifice itself now so that it may evolve and advance spiritually
later? Maybe we are helping the animal if we have the right mindset?
If you can offer me some wisdom, Dear Old Hippy, and perhaps some
consolation, I would be very grateful.
Also, do you know of a natural way to increase fertility in men and
women? Children are so precious, and we want one very much!
Thank you very much for your wisdom and advice.
I applaud the degree of consciousness with which you are making your food
choices. We all need to be aware of the consequences of our decisions be
they what to eat or how to live. Each of us has an impact upon what happens
on this planet. As we mature we take more responsibility for our actions.
This leads us to the state you’re in now, a moral dilemma.
I’m not familiar with this diet you’re on. It sounds just like another fad
diet. I must say the biggest problem I’ve found with vegetarians (I
know a lot of them) is that some of them don’t eat right. That is they
favor certain vegetables over everything else and don’t get enough protein.
That could be your underlying problem and why you feel good when you eat
one of the meat items recommended.
If what was said in that book were true, then I guess all those vegetarians
in India (almost half the population I believe), and in Asia should really
be sick! In fact most are far healthier than Americans who eat meat daily,
especially those who favor fast food. They are healthier despite the lack
of refrigeration, lack of money for medical care, etc, etc. They are also
healthier because their lives require them to do a lot of physical labor.
Our couch potato society has turned us all soft and now we get diseases
like Epstein Barr and CFS. I use parenthesis since CFS has still to be
proven to have a specific vector that causes it. No offense, as I don’t
know your particular situation. Perhaps you get lots of physical activity,
but not enough protein.
I admire your determination to find an ethical reason to eat meat, despite
the pleadings of your conscience. However I don’t think you need to go to
such extremes to justify your actions. As a good friend of mine says It’s
just light going into light. That certainly is one way of looking at it.
Of course that friend had excellent health for the many years he was a
vegetarian. Then he started eating meat and immediately took sick and has
been sick on and off in the years since and continues to eat meat.
I too had the best health ever when I was a vegan. I only stopped because I
went traveling and it became difficult to find the protein sources I was
used to. The best sources for protein for vegetarians are the combination
of legumes and grains which form the complete amino acid chains (like beans
and rice together), Tofu and TVP (texturized vegetable protein from soybeans), and
dairy products like milk, cheese and yogurt. Some vegetarians eat eggs as
The other real important health tip I have is to take megadoses of vitamins
B complex and C. Together these help you when you get stressed. CFS seems
like a disease where your body is similar to a stressed state where all your
vitamins are depleted. If you haven’t tried the vitamin therapy, give it a
try. I’m just guessing and I know a lot of research has been done in this
field without success, which leads me to believe they’re looking in the
wrong places for the answers.
By the way, I am a type O, and was never sick during the seven years when
I was a vegetarian and took megadoses of those vitamins (not even a
cold -unless I forgot to take the vitamins and got stressed).
If you’ve already tried what I recommend above, then I suggest you vary your
diet, and if tuna and chicken makes you feel better (physically), then go
for it. I’d avoid the lamb however. Fish is a relatively healthy protein
source without hormones (although tuna does have mercury). Chickens can be
OK if they’re free range, and not produced in a factory (but you know this).
The only way I know to increase fertility reliably is to increase one’s
level of physical activity. Of course if a person’s lifestyle includes
things that decrease fertility they should stop doing those things (like
drinking and smoking). In other words whatever makes you healthier usually
makes you more fertile.
I wish you the best in your endeavor to get well consciously and to conceive
The Old Hippy
Posted by: skip